Hey gurl...
Welcome to Sober Recovery...
So.. sounds like you have a binge addict on your hands.
Unfortunately.. that is still an addict.... and it's progressive...
To top that... someone trying to be a controller of an addict is just as much in
their disease as the addict. You might want to do a little research on the base disease of Codependancy to try to understand the dynamics of what's happening in your relationship with your guy.
There are no easy answers...
You can't deal with what you don't understand though.
This is the forum for friends and family of addicts... lots of useful info on there... and many in your position.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...splay.php?f=49
It's good your reaching out... cause a burden shared is much lighter... ;o)