So are you going to wait until your problem gets worse? Seems like its gotten bad enough already for it to come before your kids. That was me about a year ago it progressed to getting the kids to watch tv so I could have my wine in peace.
I also haven't really "lost" anything and none of my friends or even partner think I have anything close to a problem. But I drink almost every day and I know I have a problem. I just caught it early.
It will be up to you. Sounds like you know you have a problem or at least an issue. Only you can change your path - there are many ways besides AA. But alcoholism is a progressive disease.