Serve an eviction notice on "Mr. Guilt Monster"
Let him know you are making decisions to teach your children how to have dignity, respect and self-love - so that when they are grown and have relationships they will know how to be treated with love, respect, dignity and honor!
LIKE EVERYONE DESERVES!
That's what helped me change my way of thinking and walk away from a situation similiar to yours after 16 plus years!
It's been over 3 yrs and LIFE IS GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PINK HUGS to you!
Rita