Originally Posted by
lesliej 
an addict, or a recovering addict, attending meetings is not an accurate barometer of whether they are clean or not...I have known way too many people to show up at meetings and mask their way through the hour.
same with al anon I guess
we can only be responsible for our own honesty, dig deep, be compassionate with self, find truth, honor, love and dignity for forward action
Getting sober involves honesty nothing else.Most of the people I know that go to meetings go to stay sober.Not sure about how long people last thinking they know everything without going.Personally the moment I think I figured it out I know absolutely nothing