I am not afraid to tell her, more so I am afraid that she will realize that I consider her an alcoholic. Its a pretty sensitive situation, and feel that should be shared in a planned and intelligent manner. Does that make any sense or should I not care? I do love her, and don't want to intentionally cause damage. She probably doesn't have a clue because all of her family drinks heavily. She wants to have a better life, but her actions have not been consistent
