of everyone being unhappy (sent via text) and tired of being reminded. Unfortunately her drinking has my mind consumed but I do want to give her a chance to be a "typical" drinker.
Alanon is what I recommend because you need to learn that you are powerless over your girlfriend's drinking. An alcoholic is incapable of "typical" drinking. And, there is nothing you can do or say that will cause her to want to stop drinking.