I could have written something similar-you said it so well, conveyed my exact feelings. I think about posting, & then think "what's the point"-it's not going to change anything-i know what needs to be done in my case. But it does help that you posted, you wrote out something i wished i could have said as well as you did.
I find myself wondering about the people who serve alcohol to obvious alcoholics, the people that blatantly enable them, the POLICE who i have called so many times that did NOTHING when my husband was drunk on the road-he hasn't harmed anyone yet-but if/when he does, then the whole world will care...nothing is anything till it's on the News (that's how i feel sometimes)