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story74 And of course he blames me.
Addiction demands he protect and sustain it. Blaming you instead of taking responsibility is his way of protecting his addiction.
I wish he would just act like an adult.
Sounds like a hopeful fantasy.
I know this disease is progressive. I am hoping he will disappear. And I will keep working on no contact.
Just because he blames does not make it true.
You did not cause this.
You cannot control this.
You cannot cure this.