My first thought is have you spoken to Your Sponsor about the issue yet?
Sometimes it's hard to take that step back and not be involved in our loved ones recovery - but it is "their" recovery! And I know for me ~ I had to learn to focus on mine.
I'm not saying this is 100% true for all situations but for most things I thought it was important for others to know - I found out that everyone finds out what they need to know when they need to know and usually without ANY help from me.
That's just what I have found that keeps me healthy and taking care of things on my own side of the street
Pink Hugs & wishing you & your loved one the best!
Rita