Dee, I agree with you 100%. Part of my recovery is that I see a therapist, but if the person disagrees, stating that they already know thier prolems, and how they feel about them, and it is pointless to pay a therapist for what they already know, then it is up to that person to change the way they feel, or accept the feelings they are feeling. I find therapy to give me new ideas on how to do that.
Maybe (@ Jil) if you try a new therapist, that could help you. I know you said you have been through two in the past year and a half? I met with 11 therapist and had free consults with each until I find the one I was most comfortable with, felt had really cared about what I was going through, who wants to get to the root of everything, and ways to handle feelings I am having.
If m last post seemed rude, I apologize, that was not my intent.