so they vomit, fall, bleed, seriously hurt themselves, don't eat for days, walk around like a mummy half dead, don't sleep
It's really painful watching someone you've shared your life with turn into a person you don't even know any more. Last night I came home and found AW lying on the floor, half conscious, drooling drunk.
I asked her if she was hurt, and when she said no, I told her to just stay down there and tossed her a pillow. She spent the night on the floor.