Sorry. A's don't like when we do things for ourselves. In my experience they like it when we feel down, when we stop taking care of ourselves. Afterall, it diverts attention away from them when we care about how we feel and opens our eyes to their ways.
Take care of you. Get your nails done next. Feel good about loving yourself. We are all awesome creatures who need to feel rewarded and appreciated. If he can't appreciate you, you can. Maybe when you are least expecting it, someone else will too!