I am still learning- my tips are
- Decide if the time is right for you (if you are still getting urges with triggers etc). The first few weeks are the hardest, but I am still meeting new challenges- sobreity is your first priority if you are serious
- arrive late so things are swinging when you get there
- get something into your hand so no one offers you a drink
- have an excuse up your sleeve for why you are not drinking- in case you need it.
- Remember you do not have to be drunk to enjoy yourself, and act a bit looser than a more formal occasion
- People are much less concerned with what you are drinking than you are. Those that are concerned have a problem not you. I had to experience this before I could believe it. There are many people who go out and do not drink, I just never noticed them before
Good luck