Ryan,
I don't know what to do either except get sober.
If it would be that easy, to drink, to forget for awhile but we know that doesn't work anymore.
I was thinking the other day I have it so easy in getting sober in the sense I live alone, no immediate money worries, work is quite flexible, no big problems. I don't know how I would cope with the extra problems you are going through on top of trying to get sober, but I have a sneaking suspicion the answer lies in a good solid sobriety.
Sincerely I hope you find the answer soon.
CaiHong