Old 11-09-2011, 05:14 PM
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Farfalla
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So my AH was laid off today. I knew in my heart this would happen soon. I do feel sorry he lost his job but I cannot make his difficulty my difficulty. He has worked steady for 1.5 years now. Each month he cleared $6000. I only saw about $4000. Where did the $2000 a month go...on drugs. I feel for his financial predicament but I can't be there to bail him out. He could of had $34,000 in the bank if he was responsible and saved. Instead he wasted it on drugs. So whatever happens to him happens to him. I also learned his PCP is on to his drug addiction and plans on discharging him from the practice. Maybe he is beginning to reach his bottom? I am working on me and that is all that matters. I finished Codependent No More. Going to read it again. Especially now. I am not being cold am I?
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