You are not crazy.
My husband will tell me I'm overreacting when he's had 3 bottles of wine and a 5th of whiskey.
I've had to roll him out of his own vomit.
The next morning... "What's the big deal?" "Why are you acting so crazy".
Trust yourself. You're the sober one.
All the previous posters are right. Stick around and read. Go to AlAnon. You won't regret it.
Best of Luck.