Hi Dan, I have been where you are & want you to know it can change. The anxiety you are feeling will get better when you eventually stop drinking... actually many things will.
Its tough that is for sure but man is it worth it, I have been at that point where I have sobbed over the regrets, suffering & pain this disease causes us & others. But that is the past & you have your present & future in your hands (without the bottle).
You cant change the past my friend but you can change the future.. one day at a time.
Stay close to here & keep reading, posting & sharing. Its time to think about a recovery plan & take some action.
All of the best in your recovery
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