absolutly right I have made a fool out of myself many times and i dont hang around her after thinking about it and talking to my sponser and he called me an insecure mfer and i had to emphasize the fact i think my wife was disrespected he pretty much told me i am not her and i cant be disrespected for her i can feel disrespected for me only and basically get over it and not to let her rent space because i have so much more to worry about than someone who is drunk take it as a compliment that she thought i was attractive and move on she isnt worth my time or efforts and let her dig her own grave with her friendship with my wife