so here it is i was out with my wife and one of her friends last friday well while we were out my wife friend made sexual advances to me I.E . grabbing my crotch and trying to kiss me. I declined simply because i hold my marriage very high and i find her rather repulsive. but heres my questions #1 since being sober this really bothers me and I find it as a disrespect to myself and also my wife moreso my wife before it would not have bothered me so much i would just brush her off and never think about it again but it has seriously offended me and i dont understand why. now #2 I find myself resenting my wife because i feel it is her friend and she should put her in check and i also feel that if it was someone besides one of her friends she would have ripped her head off and my wife is now mad at me beacuse i wont talk to or be around the girl and i dont trust her and have lost what little respect i have for her can someone explain if I am wrong for feeling this way and why