When I first began living a sober life..the "friends" that I had disappeared....and healthy people took their place...it's a reflection of where you are at..some friends aren't meant forever..they were a part of you for a moment in time...something you could relate to you..sobriety gives you many gifts.. and one is discernment...the ability to see who and what you really need in your life.....time to let go.. and start living!