Wrapping up on day 2, thought I would check in. Feeling much better as the chest and head cold is starting to lift.
Deserto, just my thoughts on this, but your wife needs to give you room. My wife did that the first times I tried to quit and she now says it only made things worse. It has to come from inside of you and not pressure from outside sources. Now that my wife doesn't pressure me anymore, I feel worse when I have a slip versus when she used to hover me. Sounds like you are doing well, just keep up good communication.
Thanks for sharing your story Alaska,
I come here in the morning and at night, and this thread has many wonderful people posting.
Thanks to all of you