Good for you, amy55, for fighting back. You deserve everything (and more) for putting up with that a**wipe.
I took the opposite route and simply walked away without fighting for anything. I don't need anything. There isn't much of anything anyway. But before I did, I checked to see if an annulment on the grounds of fraud was possible. And fraud being that he was an alcoholic before he married me and didn't let me know this. It would have been doable but very hard to prove. Kind of disappointing...an annulment would have wiped the marriage off the face of public records as if it never happened....