Thanks Freedom1990!
I think 6 months is too little time, but a year seemed about right especially since we have 15 years together and 14 years married, that's about a month for every year of marriage, so we'll see. He even asked me what I want him to do, and I told him I want him to do what he thinks he should. I am going to just require 1 year clean, and however he does that is up to him, however, I do not consider the whole "suboxone" thing as "clean" He mentioned that over the weekend, but I have done research online and I am not sure how that is any different. It almost seems worse because it is so condensed. Thanks again. Just trying to make the best decisions for all and especially me and my boys!