ThatLittleGirl,
Thanks! We got married one week after we turned 21, and have grown up together pretty much. Again, it's hard when doctor'a prescribe stuff and even when I suspected he was taking too much medicine, up from 3 a day to about 5, I went with him to his doctor, and the doctor looked at me and said, "Ma'am, do you want your husband in pain." I told that doctor, "Of course not, but he grew up in a home of addicts and has addictive qualities and I don't want it to be a problem." So, in the beginning it was hard to know if he was "abusing", but now that he isn't prescribed them it is plain to see the lies and the behavior that goes along with it. My plan is to stay separated and if he can go 1 year (minimum) and do the counseling or whatever he feels he needs then I will not file for divorce, but if he can't then, I am setting my limit at one year clean. Thanks for the support!