nowhere to escape
I have asked AH not to come into our bedroom more than once this week after he starts up with the verbal attacks so that I can get away from him and he will stew for a few minutes in the living room and then follow me in there to continue the insults and accusations...of course the girls bedrooms are at this end of the house so I am not only pissed off that walking away from him doesnt work for me but that now he will possibly be waking them up with his nonsense...I also get "why dont you sleep on the couch!" or "why dont you leave! this is my house too!" when I ask him to leave me alone for awhile...his parents live closeby, my family is on the other side of the country, so he's got the option, I dont. I'm just so fed up with this crap and feel like I seriously have nowhere to escape! Thought about putting a lock on our bedroom door, but think that might just make it worse...FML...I am mostly just venting...I know that I need to take some steps to change this situation but I've only just started to realize there is a big problem here so thank you for bearing with me!