SFemme 24......
Let me propose a different way of looking at this.......
Let's say bf is "jailhouse talkin"......
What would it hurt if you keep the distance you have now? Actually, maybe even a
little bit more distance when he gets out.....
Make him move mountains to prove to you. Yes.....he should.
Women have set the bar so low for what they will accept.
And the other huge RED FLAG.....why is he talking about all of the things HE wants when he gets out?
Sorry....but, my opinion is....he's setting you up for a huge fall.
Where has he EVER demonstrated that this is something he can do?
Why not give him the opportunity to do that FIRST (statement...not question)