If it's causing problems in your life I'd suggest giving it up for a period of time, say three months. Serious problems with alcohol arent' really about
what you drink or
how often, it's
what happens to you when you drink. I was an all day every day drinker and finally gave it up for good almost two years ago. I feel so free not having any dependance on a chemical.
Try a sober life for a while and see how you like it.
Welcome to the family! :ghug3