Originally Posted by
williamj 
Still, I do not feel like it is wrong for me to say, "no more!" when it comes to placating my wife's AF. it doesn't mean I don't support her, it means that i no longer support him. Am I wrong in this thinking? Am I missing something?
No you are not wrong in your thinking.
I have two very dysfunctional parents, and to put it simply, I don't placate. I have spoken my mind more than once, which usually results in the silent treatment from them, and that's on them, not me.
Life's too short to live all knotted up placating someone, even a relative!
