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Old 09-16-2011, 11:11 PM
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BeProactive
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Thanks Suki, Dollydo and SoaringSpirits.

Suki - No, there is no supervised visitation currently. It is unsupervised..I took a picture today of him drunk (we went today as well, his sister and his brother-in-law also came to talk to him).

Dollydo - I think there are very few people who have the time/bandwidth to help with situations like this. I have a few friends (whom I am having over tomorrow for a home cooked dinner) who helped me during the past few months but I am hesitant to ask them for this kind of help - they are all very busy with their families/activities. I have decided to take pics for now..Thanks for the hugs!

Thanks SoaringSpirits - thats a great idea, I will check with my attorney.

I spoke to my attorney today and she suggested a couple of options. One - Stop this visitation if it continues this way this weekend as well and notify his lawyer that we are stopping due to his drinking every time. Two - stop the visitation and file a motion with court citing the same reason. Or continue for some more time and see how it goes.. I will mull over my options this weekend and then decide..

Thanks for the support!
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