JT, the one statement you made said a lot to me. "If you have a problem with it, it is just that...your problem." We make it our problem and we have the choice to let it become it our problem. I try very hard to make my A b/f's "problem" not my problem but its so hard not to. Did that make sense? I choose to live with his (my) problem and deal with it the best way I can. I'm going to remember that statement.
