Originally Posted by
Chino 
Your fiance is self medicating with alcohol, pot and coke. He's a poly substance addict and you've never known him sober. You chose to give your heart to an active addict. Why?
^^This!!!
And like Ann said, there are red flags EVERYWHERE. You don't want to call off the wedding? Doesn't sound like anything we say here will change your mind. But please, please, please....do NOT get pregnant within the 1st year.