no day but 2 day... i am nearly certain that once the mr nice guy act ends when he realizes it isn't going to get him what he wants, i WILL get the emails (or more likely the verbal attack bc he has smartened up and isn't putting his nastiness in writing anymore) that tell me what an evil mother i am. as it is, i can see glimpses of 'it will be all your fault that i will be an absentee father' in what he wrote-- it's very subtle but it's there and it's just a matter of time before the vile words come... sigh...