RANT
I have been accused of being a jerk tonight, not by her. I have not asked to see her in a few weeks even though she and I are supposed be "friends." I know that the people here at SR understand detachment. I suppose EVERYONE is entitled to their own opinion.
I haven't seen her because I do not identify with a friendship role. I am her ex-boyfriend. I identify with her in a sexual, loving emotional way. Since we simply cannot be this way right now I accept her terms and maintain my distance.