Ugh! That sounds very hard to deal with. I'm sort of chuckling over the "you are worse than Hitler" remark, though. I mean, gosh, what does it take to be worse than Hitler? That's pretty hard to imagine. I'm sorry you are the recipient of such hurtful words. And the blame is a heavy burden, too. You know it's not your fault, but it still hurts. Hang in there.