Choublak, no one is taunting you. We see people all the time who don't like what they hear from us and become a bit defensive and sometimes even hostile. We have absolutely no reason to not like you, we don't even know you. We "have it out" for no one. We are here to help support people who love an addict. We give our ES&H. We've pretty much heard it all before, so when we point out a red flag, it's because we have been there. There is no need to be so defensive.