Originally Posted by
CagedBird 
I don't believe that he will ever quit drinking, no matter how much it ruins his/our/our childrens' lives.
Isn't that your answer right there? Now it's up to you to decide whether you want to live with it or not. I know that it's difficult, but as far as I can tell the ball is in your court. Good luck to you in whatever you decide. My heart goes out to you.