Hi Luli - I went thru this my with stbxah. he refused to leave, then left, then came back (we were renting as well). After a few times of this, I realized that even if he left again, I would be living in fear of hm coming back. Unless, you can do make him move legally, it is better to move out yourself. I moved out. Legally, where I live, he is entitled to live in the house as much as I was. I couldn't do anything to make him leave, so I moved out. Find out what the laws are where you live - good luck.