Sorry for the situation.....and who knows what was really said?
And her actions of sneaking drinks was a form of lying to you.
Anyway...most of us tried to control our drinking before we finally quit.
I hope she can or will quickly come to the realization alcohol is damageing her health and life.
For you I suggest you check out our Friends and Family of Alcoholics Forum and take a read around.
You too could use some support as you go thru this...
Here is the link
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ly-alcoholics/