Sheneedshelp, I'm so sorry I don't know what I would do if it were my child and not my husband. One thing I know is that I often prayed that the police would arrest him drinking and driving (I've already called the police to warn them of this) so that he would wind up in jail just so I would know he's not a threat to himself or anyone else. Maybe facing the consequences might turn the light bulb on for her.