All I can share is I didn't learn a thing as long as my parent bailed me out of my messes, which they did for 10 years after I left home.
There are far worse places to be than jail, guaranteed.
What she learned is if she cries enough, you will bail her out.
I hope she shows up for court when she is supposed to so you don't lose that bail money.
She may have to get a lot worse before she gets any better, hon.
We don't know what her bottom is.
Sending you hugs of support!
