asking your son to give your bf another chance to put up with his abusive behavior?, he can always come back if this man does ever get help and you are still with him I mean real help I mean 10 years down the road he has been sober, not oh tommorow or next week or even next month, to even ask such a thing of your son when he so clearly needs to get away from that awful situation is horrible, everyone has choices so im learning dont put your choices down someone elses throat, be happy he has a safe place to even go to dont mean to offend just saying whats on my mind