I have to agree ... My A does the same stuff. It's a hook. Not saying that he's being disingenuous, but I agree with the others..
It really doesn't matter how "sincere" he's being.
What matters is can YOU deal with someone who is actively using, even if they love you.
I think it was smart of you to post on here and I appreciate your posts artist.
I think, though, the fact that you are unsure about how to feel about this should tell you something...
I also think actions do speak louder than words...you know what his actions are telling you.
What are your actions telling him?