Friend who drove me home has 3 years and is an example of hope for me & in daily pain, but is spiritually growing.
My not yet husband i met in aa in 1992, i took care of him his last 7 years alive. He lost kidney use last 5 of those years, i was sober off and on till may 16 2011. I want a real computer (whining now). He had 15 years sober, but ate his emotional pain "away".