Originally Posted by
returntonormal 
Now that I've said I want to separate, he's not drinking. Great. The big problem is that he doesn't think he has an issue with alcohol. This means that in a week, or a month, or a year, he'll pick up. And then I'll be right where we started.
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Yep. I think my fiance is doing the same thing. He's been calling and texting more than normal the past few days - even late at night. Don't know if its because he's afraid of losing me or if its because he's not drinking now. But I agree that if they don't think their drinking is a problem then their period of sobriety is temporary.