Originally Posted by
Englishrose70 
Please dont let the pets suffer too, they really are totally innocents in all this. There must be a shelter who will take them. I implore you to do the right thing by them.
All the very best with you, you must be at the end of your tether now and there comes a point where you have to save you, you cant save your husband if he doesnt want to be saved.
God bless.
so true. i can't help him anymore. he doesn't want saving. he repeatedly says he wants to die and he IS going to if he doesn't stop. he not only has the alcoholism disease but also a life threatening blood disease which is escalated by drinking. he is basically pickling his insides and the iron in his blood is way too abundant and is also attacking his liver. so its now not a matter of if he will die from it, but when he will die from it ..... and i dont want to be around to watch it happen.
oh, and dont' worry about the pets. i would never desert them or let anything bad happen to them. i love them too much