Originally Posted by
returntonormal 
Now that I've said I want to separate, he's not drinking. Great. The big problem is that he doesn't think he has an issue with alcohol. This means that in a week, or a month, or a year, he'll pick up. And then I'll be right where we started.
Yep. Been there, and currently doing exactly this. The alcoholic behavior identified on this board is so amazingly similar. Over and over again, I read the same stories. People just like me living with a person just like my wife.
They really say and do anything. They lie. You can not be reasonable with unreasonable people. They are parasites looking for a host.