Old 08-01-2011, 06:57 AM
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outtolunch
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Guilt protects a fantasy that she/they could have saved him. Reality is drugs/lifestyle killed him, not " no contact".

Your friend could probably benefit from grief counseling.

As to what to say....."I am so sorry for your loss-drugs are terrible" comes to mind.
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