i was not as wise as you, friend. i did not know how 2 tell there was trouble ahead...
still, i understand what u say about going through all the crap of finding 'mr right' in time 2 have your family...
but the choices u make today are really for your children, dear lady...
i wish i had placed myself into my future to look at what my child might suffer, or myself even--when the alcohol takes first place in family life.
so sad my last twenty-two years have been because of that, dear lady...
let this not be so for you also, i pray.
i'm telling u right now he's going to try putting head trips on you to blame u...
because he's afraid to face himself...and may never change.
please pray to God for help, as i wish i had.
God Loves u.
my prayers will join yours unto the hope for a better man 4 u.
blessings from new york state....