Originally Posted by
dollydo 
Welcome,
How about waiting a year or so before considering marrying him? Sit back and watch his actions, ignore his words, they mean nothing.
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I kinda already did that this past year. I told him a year ago that I feared he was becoming an alcoholic and asked him to cut down his drinking. Then I quietly sat back and watched. He quit drinking for a month or two, but then his drinking slowly escalated back up.