Thanks for the support.
Not sure when the divorce will be final because of lack of full cooperation on her part. We need to go through at least 1 court mediation session in August (mandatory for child custody issue here) and then another court date in Sept.
Been going on for a year with no end, although when I though there was some hope, the case was put in as inactive (but not dropped) for about 3 months. But that hope is gone at this point, need to move forward with my life and to cut through the uncertainty.